One, if you do go down on him, will he take this as a green light for more activities in the future? Will things escalate?Īdditionally, what are your expectations here? In other words, do you want him to reciprocate? If yes, what if that’s not something he’s willing to do? Are you OK with merely giving him bro-jobs at his beckon call?įinally, is there a part of you who has feelings for him? I’m not saying you do. Here are a few other things to consider as part of the dynamic. On the other hand, if you feel he’ll be cool with it, then why not enjoy? If you aren’t sure, that could be an indication that maybe, hooking up with him isn’t a smart move. In other words, based on your own experiences of your roomie thus far, how do you think he’ll act afterward?
What may be helpful is to fast-forward your mental tape and play things out. But you’ll also read about guys who would never “feed of the seed” of a “straight” roommate. If you look around this website, you’ll find all sorts of stories about things going splendidly with curious men. The truth is things could go either way, meaning bad or good. Much depends on this guy’s emotional makeup and mental maturity. Here’s the thing Jimmy, there’s no right or wrong answer. The essential question for you is, should I sleep with him? At the end of the day, it’s kind of a moot point because he’s obviously interested. I couldn’t tell you if your roomie is gay, bi or simply curious. It doesn’t get any more direct than “go for it”, does it? Well, that and because the guy all but told you to service him. We know this because he’s getting an erection while wrestling with you. Moreover, your roomie also appears to be attracted to you. So, in reading your post, my sense is you are really attracted to him. From the sound of it, your roommate is the stuff of “lick and yum” as some folks like to say around here. I can imagine this whole thing has been difficult for you. Well, either relate to or fantasize about. It sounds like you are in a situation that a lot of guys who visit this blog can relate to. But I’m afraid it could get weird afterward. It’s not like I don’t want to because I totally do. When I pointed this out to him, he looked at me and said, “You know you want to suck it.” When I joked back and told him I would, he replied, “Go for it!” The last time it happened, I could feel his stiffy through his sweats. On three separate occasions, we’ve gotten into wrestling matches. Things took a turn recently when Zach emerged from a cuddle session sporting a boner and what appears to be a wet spot.But here is the weird thing. He’s just one of the greatest people I’ve ever met.” “But the bond Frankie and I have is so genuine and sincere that I truly feel that he is my boyfriend. “I’m not gay,” Zach claimed in the Big Brother confessional last week. RT It's pitch black in that room so Cody has no idea what's going on right next to him! #Zankie #BB16 Let this photo be proof that Frankie Grande, half brother to pop singer Ariana Grande, has slept with most of the men in the Big Brother 16 house:įrankie and Zach, or Zankie as they are being called online, have continued to show displays of affection by cuddling and stroking each other every night: